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Meet Alam & Alyssia

A Nervous First Date
“CMB brings you out beyond your everyday circles. I’m not saying it’s perfect, but there will be more like-minded people here than you think!"
— Alam
Two years ago, Alyssia and I decided to meet at a Japanese restaurant for a first date.
I was a ball of nerves. I didn’t really know what to do. She came in looking calm and elegant. I kept wondering if she’d be able to tell how anxious I was.
But then we started talking, and those wonders turned into a flow state of conversation I never knew I could have with someone from a different world than mine. I didn’t know such a calming first date could exist.
And I knew, I wanted to continue having conversations with her.
Two years later, we got engaged, having more conversations that me on my first date could ever imagine.



8 min read · April 2026









